My dad had written an article on "the missing link between science and spirituality". Its a great one. So with this inspiration, here i come out with mine.. This is about "the missing link between life and love..." this is related with science and spirituality, wait wait.. don't get tensed, patience is needed in all walks of life... let me make you to understand...
Here i say Life is somewhat Science oriented, since life is experimental always, consciously or unconsciously one experiments life. Life is full of questions and the need to find the answer. But love is spiritual where love cannot be experimented or taught to others, it is an in-depth feeling. Only we can feel it, if we try to explain also no one can understand because love is difficult to explain but it is easy to understand. Love cannot be calculated, you can measure the love with any scale and give the same to other. Life can be measured, they days you lived happily, sadly, angrily etc. Every one can measure it. We need a pen and paper to analyze and write about the days in life. Life can be researched, you can learn about it from someone. Love cant be learn, its natural it is in the existence before life itself, We all have come to this world is because of love only. You think for a while and see, many won't care about life at all but they care and scream for love. In todays life people are running and missing the love in life, they work with pressures and they are not aware about the happenings inside them. I was talking to a person, he kept on talking and talking, rather than me if anyone heard him talking they will say "this man is an idiot, keeps on talking, always he is saying about his younger days and its pressures." Of course he has to throw it out. There were no one to listen to him, show him courtesy and listen to his stories. His heart have been throbbing for long days to say about his story, no one is there to listen. Due to this, since he doesn't have any guidance. He kept his struggles, pressures, stress, failures with him buried for long days, no one to share. He filled his cup completely. He became the strict person in this planet, he use to talk about perfection - he needs everything perfect, not even a chair should move without his permission and in his absence if anybody moves or alters anything in his room (like moving a chair) the very next day he will find out and shout at them. He needs perfection always. But this is the so called "perfection". How can all and everything in life be perfect? Ok lets come to the story of this so called perfectionist. Lets analyze his life, why this guy is doing like this? the point is there is no one to interact with love, but if you go and start interacting he will talk what he wants, he has his own belief systems, and his ego wouldn't allow him to come out of it. And due to the lack of gaining knowledge, he is in his younger days and sees the world through that. Some people are there, they accept the technological developments and its uses, but they wont accept the development of lifestyle. They will use iphone but they will not put a message to their wife "honey, i love you and i miss you". To their sons and daughters, they are not aware at all about their fathers. Likewise in this man's life to happened, his daughter struggled a lot to change him and make him to understand about her love and wishes to live life and love life. This didn't happen at all. She came to me and told everything about her father's strictness and others. She is need of love and she is struggling to live life. Due to her father's lack of love and strictness, this girl had also got the anger from the father. She had showed her anger by beating herself, spoiling her life without studying anything, without interacting to people because she didnt learn to interact. If you talk to her, you will also get that anger in you. So now its time to enter into her small beautiful heart and fly like a butterfly. So that her heart will blossom like a flower.
I told her a story. Dear Shoba, Once a guy learn't to swim, While he was swimming - this time he decided to go as deep as possible. He was ready with his oxygen mask and went in, on the 100th feet, he saw a man in a distant coming down without any oxygen. He got amazed "how this is possible without oxygen", he left off then. Later on the 300th, he saw him again. And again in the 500, this time he decided should catch him and ask him the secret of swimming such a depth without any life things. He went near him and caught him "Hello sir, this is Nandha, i am amazed how you came so deep without any life things? Can you please teach me the secret? Sine I am a new learner and i love to learn things in life, please teach me the secret? The other guy got irritated and told "Idiot, I am sinking please save me for god's sake". Read this carefully. Likewise only many of us, leave others by believing that they are swimming, no not at all, they are sinking. We need to save them. Now next question was thrown towards me "How to do it. Mr. G", See the anger in her words, here she thought of inserting some other horrible word but since he was talking to me, admiring my words she changed. I kept myself as positive as i can, so here i go. "Dearest Shoba, you just need to pour some love into their cup, you need to talk to them as soft as possible. Its not difficult at all, have you ever observed the statue of "Buddha" the enlightened guy, whenever you see or observe there will be a great peace or silence in our heart. Since Buddha's love is like that. Sameway if you want to change a person, just pour some love into their cup but remember you cup should be filled with love. Take this oath: First Accept Yourself, Love Yourself, Be yourself. Now you will be ready to do it. And also remember this, the knowledge cup which you gained should be cleaned and refilled always, since knowledge is vast and we have lot and lots of time to explore it. You can see a person and say about his knowledge, it always hidden like saraswathi river. It is said that the joining point of the two rivers - ganga and yamuna is saraswathi. You cant see it, since it is hidden. And so the knowledge is hidden. So update your knowledge, learn as much as possible. Have a great faith in you and patience to learn and explore things. Now you can meet you dad and give him a hug or ly down in his lap, pour your love or anyother feelings, Make him to believe that you are there for him. Thank him first for bringing you to this marvellous planet and exploring great things in life. Thank him. Now there will be a enormous change in his activities, he will feel that he had missed his life, wasting round the clock beating himself and showing the anger to you. Pour your love to him. Automatically his cup will be filled with love. There is a saying in tamil "Karaipar karaithaal kallum karaiyum" That is, Even we can dissolve stones. And one of my favorite for patience by the lyricst "Vairamuthu" "Thaneerai kooda salladaiel allalam, pani katti agum varai kaathiru" "You can filter even water, you need to wait until it becomes a snow". So just try to keep these things in mind. You can BE THE CHANGE!!!!
Dear friends, hope you might have sensed the missing link between life and love, life needs love to live life. And love needs life. Both are the most important thing in this world, one cannot exists without the other. Show love as much as you can. So that the whole world will be with love and your life will also be filled with love and you will start to live life without the tensions, pressures, distress etc...!! Do the best!
Here i say Life is somewhat Science oriented, since life is experimental always, consciously or unconsciously one experiments life. Life is full of questions and the need to find the answer. But love is spiritual where love cannot be experimented or taught to others, it is an in-depth feeling. Only we can feel it, if we try to explain also no one can understand because love is difficult to explain but it is easy to understand. Love cannot be calculated, you can measure the love with any scale and give the same to other. Life can be measured, they days you lived happily, sadly, angrily etc. Every one can measure it. We need a pen and paper to analyze and write about the days in life. Life can be researched, you can learn about it from someone. Love cant be learn, its natural it is in the existence before life itself, We all have come to this world is because of love only. You think for a while and see, many won't care about life at all but they care and scream for love. In todays life people are running and missing the love in life, they work with pressures and they are not aware about the happenings inside them. I was talking to a person, he kept on talking and talking, rather than me if anyone heard him talking they will say "this man is an idiot, keeps on talking, always he is saying about his younger days and its pressures." Of course he has to throw it out. There were no one to listen to him, show him courtesy and listen to his stories. His heart have been throbbing for long days to say about his story, no one is there to listen. Due to this, since he doesn't have any guidance. He kept his struggles, pressures, stress, failures with him buried for long days, no one to share. He filled his cup completely. He became the strict person in this planet, he use to talk about perfection - he needs everything perfect, not even a chair should move without his permission and in his absence if anybody moves or alters anything in his room (like moving a chair) the very next day he will find out and shout at them. He needs perfection always. But this is the so called "perfection". How can all and everything in life be perfect? Ok lets come to the story of this so called perfectionist. Lets analyze his life, why this guy is doing like this? the point is there is no one to interact with love, but if you go and start interacting he will talk what he wants, he has his own belief systems, and his ego wouldn't allow him to come out of it. And due to the lack of gaining knowledge, he is in his younger days and sees the world through that. Some people are there, they accept the technological developments and its uses, but they wont accept the development of lifestyle. They will use iphone but they will not put a message to their wife "honey, i love you and i miss you". To their sons and daughters, they are not aware at all about their fathers. Likewise in this man's life to happened, his daughter struggled a lot to change him and make him to understand about her love and wishes to live life and love life. This didn't happen at all. She came to me and told everything about her father's strictness and others. She is need of love and she is struggling to live life. Due to her father's lack of love and strictness, this girl had also got the anger from the father. She had showed her anger by beating herself, spoiling her life without studying anything, without interacting to people because she didnt learn to interact. If you talk to her, you will also get that anger in you. So now its time to enter into her small beautiful heart and fly like a butterfly. So that her heart will blossom like a flower.
I told her a story. Dear Shoba, Once a guy learn't to swim, While he was swimming - this time he decided to go as deep as possible. He was ready with his oxygen mask and went in, on the 100th feet, he saw a man in a distant coming down without any oxygen. He got amazed "how this is possible without oxygen", he left off then. Later on the 300th, he saw him again. And again in the 500, this time he decided should catch him and ask him the secret of swimming such a depth without any life things. He went near him and caught him "Hello sir, this is Nandha, i am amazed how you came so deep without any life things? Can you please teach me the secret? Sine I am a new learner and i love to learn things in life, please teach me the secret? The other guy got irritated and told "Idiot, I am sinking please save me for god's sake". Read this carefully. Likewise only many of us, leave others by believing that they are swimming, no not at all, they are sinking. We need to save them. Now next question was thrown towards me "How to do it. Mr. G", See the anger in her words, here she thought of inserting some other horrible word but since he was talking to me, admiring my words she changed. I kept myself as positive as i can, so here i go. "Dearest Shoba, you just need to pour some love into their cup, you need to talk to them as soft as possible. Its not difficult at all, have you ever observed the statue of "Buddha" the enlightened guy, whenever you see or observe there will be a great peace or silence in our heart. Since Buddha's love is like that. Sameway if you want to change a person, just pour some love into their cup but remember you cup should be filled with love. Take this oath: First Accept Yourself, Love Yourself, Be yourself. Now you will be ready to do it. And also remember this, the knowledge cup which you gained should be cleaned and refilled always, since knowledge is vast and we have lot and lots of time to explore it. You can see a person and say about his knowledge, it always hidden like saraswathi river. It is said that the joining point of the two rivers - ganga and yamuna is saraswathi. You cant see it, since it is hidden. And so the knowledge is hidden. So update your knowledge, learn as much as possible. Have a great faith in you and patience to learn and explore things. Now you can meet you dad and give him a hug or ly down in his lap, pour your love or anyother feelings, Make him to believe that you are there for him. Thank him first for bringing you to this marvellous planet and exploring great things in life. Thank him. Now there will be a enormous change in his activities, he will feel that he had missed his life, wasting round the clock beating himself and showing the anger to you. Pour your love to him. Automatically his cup will be filled with love. There is a saying in tamil "Karaipar karaithaal kallum karaiyum" That is, Even we can dissolve stones. And one of my favorite for patience by the lyricst "Vairamuthu" "Thaneerai kooda salladaiel allalam, pani katti agum varai kaathiru" "You can filter even water, you need to wait until it becomes a snow". So just try to keep these things in mind. You can BE THE CHANGE!!!!
Dear friends, hope you might have sensed the missing link between life and love, life needs love to live life. And love needs life. Both are the most important thing in this world, one cannot exists without the other. Show love as much as you can. So that the whole world will be with love and your life will also be filled with love and you will start to live life without the tensions, pressures, distress etc...!! Do the best!
Remember: I have mentioned the word "love", here i come to say "beyond the word love", since we need to depend on the words which the language as got. But here i mean "beyond the word love", we cant explain about it. You have to feel it.!!!
